Today I want to share the signs she is not into you anymore.
It will be painful.
Yep, that’s the truth.
I wish I could tell you that reading this article is as relaxing as taking a walk in the park.
That won’t be the case.
I mean, it will be easier for you to digest the truth bombs I share with you if you haven’t invested a lot of emotional currency in her and your relationship.
In other words, if you just had your second date and she shows any of these signs she is not into you anymore, you’ll get away with bruises.
Table of Contents
- 1. All signs she is not into you anymore lead to the friend zone
- 2. She refers to you as her friend
- 3. She takes hours or even days to respond
- 4. She makes up excuses when you ask her out
- 5. She is no longer affectionate with you
- 6. She blocks your attempts to kiss her
- 7. She only calls you when you need to fix something
- 8. You have the feeling that she’s always bored with you
- 9. She makes plans with her friends and doesn’t include you
- 10. She blocks your attempts to be a gentleman
- 11. She changes the topic when you talk about old memories
- 12. She doesn’t care if you see other women
But what if you are emotionally invested in the relationship?
What if you are dating for a couple of months or even years?
Then it will be really painful.
But the truth sets you free.
The last thing you want is to be in a relationship with a woman who doesn’t love you and who’s no longer into you.
You deserve a woman who desires you and craves you like the cookie monster craves cookies.
No matter if you just started dating her or if you are already dating for a long time…
…here is the truth that might be painful but that will set you free.
1. All signs she is not into you anymore lead to the friend zone
This is the most painful truth you have to realize.
All the signs she’s not into you anymore that I share with you in this article lead you directly into the Friend Zone.
The fact that she’s not into you anymore means and that she already considers you a friend.
She no longer sees you as a lover or as a potential boyfriend.
This is something that hurts, especially when you were already in a relationship with this girl.
That’s why it’s important when you are in this situation that you try everything in your power to either get her back or you make the conscious decision to move on.
You don’t want to be in the friendzone.
2. She refers to you as her friend
If she does that, she makes it very obvious that she only sees you as a friend.
Does she refer to you with the word friend?
Then she sees you as nothing more than a good friend.
If that’s the case you have to get out of this relationship as fast as possible.
Don’t ever stick around with a woman who just regards you as a friend.
3. She takes hours or even days to respond
When a woman is totally into you, she will respond to you very fast.
The moment she reads your text message will be the moment when she replies to your message.
But what if a woman has lost her desire for you and her interest in you?
Then it can take hours or in the worst case even days for her to respond.
This is one of the clear signs she’s not into you anymore.
It’s time to move on.
4. She makes up excuses when you ask her out
How does she react when you ask her out?
A woman who is a genuine burning desire for you will say yes immediately.
She might even initiate the conversation with you and try everything in her power that you ask her out.
What about a woman who has lost interest in you?
She will come up with excuses why she can’t go out with you.
5. She is no longer affectionate with you
One of the most painful signs she is not into you anymore is When she doesn’t show any affection anymore.
Maybe you’ve already been dating her for a while and she used to kiss you all the time and she used to be very affectionate.
Now she’s no longer affectionate.
In fact, she’s pushing you away whenever you try to be affectionate to her.
6. She blocks your attempts to kiss her
What if you are on your second date with this girl and you haven’t kissed her yet?
You want to go in for the kiss but the moment you try to get closer to her lips, she pulls back.
That’s a clear sign that this woman is no longer into you or maybe she has never been into you.
Of course, if she rejects your kissing attempt with a smile on her face and she says that it’s too soon…
… This translates to please try again later.
But if she rejects your keys with a serious facial expression then you can bet your butt that she’s not into you anymore.
7. She only calls you when you need to fix something
She never texts you back and she would never call you without you contacting her first.
But when she then finally decides to call you, then she only does it because she wants something from you.
And no, it’s not your love and affection.
She might want you to fix something for her or in the worst case, she wants you to pay for something.
And again, it’s time to move on.
8. You have the feeling that she’s always bored with you
You can’t get rid of this feeling that she’s always bored whenever she’s with you.
In the past, she used to be excited to see you.
She used to snuggle up to you and she used to kiss you all the time and enjoy the time with you.
What about now?
Now she’s showing one of the most painful signs she’s not into you anymore.
When you get the feeling that a woman is bored in your presence, you have to address the elephant in the room.
That’s your only chance to find out if she’s actually bored or if it’s just a fear that you have in your mind.
9. She makes plans with her friends and doesn’t include you
Let’s say you know that she doesn’t have any work on Saturday and on Sunday.
In the past, you always met at least once every weekend either on Saturday or on Sunday.
Sometimes you even spent the whole weekend together.
But now that she has lost her attraction for you She no longer wants to spend either Saturday or Sunday with you.
She makes plans with her friends and she doesn’t include you in these plans.
And when you then address her with this suspicion, she comes up with an excuse or she just tells you that she forgot to ask you.
She didn’t forget to ask you.
Her feeling for you has changed.
10. She blocks your attempts to be a gentleman
What if you are a gentleman and you want to walk her to her car or you want to wait until the bus arrives?
The woman who is into you will appreciate you being a gentleman for her.
A woman who’s no longer into you will tell you that you don’t have to walk with her and that there’s no reason to wait with her until the bus arrives.
This woman is no longer interested in you and you have to accept the fact that she’s no longer interested.
11. She changes the topic when you talk about old memories
One of the most obvious signs she’s not into you anymore is when she avoids any emotional topics that remind her of a time when she used to be into you.
In other words, whenever you bring up memories from the past, she will avoid the conversation or change the topic.
She does that because she no longer wants to give you the feeling that these memories are important for her that she sees you the same way she used to see you.
12. She doesn’t care if you see other women
This is the most obvious sign a woman is no longer into you.
If she doesn’t even care yeah when you tell her that you met another girl or that another woman was flirting with you…
… This means that he is no longer attracted and also no longer interested in you.
Then it’s really time to move on.
And because you read so many articles on this website, you will be able to attract a woman who is into you.