What are the signs of a needy woman?
Every man should know this science, because when you were in a relationship with a woman who is very insecure and who acts desperate…well…
You are in for a bumpy ride.
A lot of people falsely believe that only men can be needy.
But that’s not the case at all.
There are also a lot of women who exhibit needy behavior.
Table of Contents
- 1. One of the signs of a Needy Woman is that she always complains about her looks
- 2. She feels insecure next to beautiful women
- 3. She doesn’t want you to go out alone
- 4. She makes drama whenever you don’t have time for her
- 5. She wants to take a look at her phone
- 6. She gets jealous very easily
- 7. She can’t make a decision without asking you
- 8. Every time you say no she thinks you are leaving her
- 9. She doesn’t give you physical space to breathe
- 10. She expects you to text her back immediately
- 11. She doesn’t want you to have female friends
- 12. She expects you to make her happy
It’s important that you know no how to spot a needy girl and then you can make a decision for yourself.
You can decide whether or not you still want to continue seeing her or if your behavior gets out of hand.
That’s why I decided to share these signs of a needy woman with you…
1. One of the signs of a Needy Woman is that she always complains about her looks
The first sign that you should be aware of is that she always complains about the way she looks.
A needy woman is never truly happy with her physical appearance.
She always feels insecure about the way she looks and she needs your constant affirmation and a lot of affection in order to feel at least a little bit confident.
That’s why these women are obsessed with showing you different dresses and different styles in the worst case they might even think about physically altering their appearance.
In the beginning, you might think that it’s a positive sign that she wants to look good for you, but needy women can take it to an extreme.
In case she’s obsessed with her physical appearance every second of the day, it might negatively affect your relationship.
2. She feels insecure next to beautiful women
The needy woman will never feel confident next to a woman who she considers to be more beautiful.
Remember what I just said.
She needs a lot of affection and you constantly need to reaffirm to her that she is the most beautiful woman in your eyes.
That’s the reality of dating a very needy woman.
That’s also why a lot of men who date needy women have a very hard time when the woman they are dating considers their ex-girlfriend to be more beautiful in them.
3. She doesn’t want you to go out alone
Another popular sign of a new woman is that she doesn’t want you to go out alone.
Sometimes it can be because she wants to control every move you make. That’s the most extreme variation.
But there are other times when she is simply afraid that you could meet a woman who’s in her eyes more beautiful than her.
This is one of the biggest issues that I experienced with women with very needy.
As a man, we want to see our buddies alone. We want to have the freedom to go to a bar when we want.
With a very needy woman, this is almost impossible.
4. She makes drama whenever you don’t have time for her
What if you tell her that you’re not available today?
Prepare yourself for some drama.
Needy women absolutely hate it when you tell them that you don’t have time for them because the definition of neediness is the need to be with someone.
She needs you like she needs the air to breathe.
And if you don’t give her what she needs the most, which is your affection and your time, then drama can be the result.
5. She wants to take a look at her phone
A needy woman can easily turn into a controlling woman.
Her neediness dictates that is constantly afraid of losing you.
And the woman was constantly afraid of losing you will do everything to make sure that you and not abandoning her.
That’s why a lot of needy women ask you to look at your phone or they just check your messages without you knowing.
Both are signs of a needy woman.
6. She gets jealous very easily
This is one of the signs of a needy woman that is almost impossible to avoid.
I’ve never met a woman who is extremely needy who was not also extremely jealous.
Jealousy and neediness go hand in hand.
Don’t get me wrong.
A little bit of jealousy is absolutely okay. In fact, it can be cute.
But if her jealousy gets more and more extreme, you can prepare yourself for a rough ride.
7. She can’t make a decision without asking you
Are you ready for even more signs of a needy woman?
Then think about how the girl you are dating makes decisions for herself.
Does she always ask you before she makes a decision or can she make a decision on her own?
A lot of women who are very needy are not able to decide for themselves. They always ask you before they make any decisions.
This can be cute in the beginning and it can also boost your ego.
But if she has to ask you before every tiny decision, it can also turn into an annoyance.
8. Every time you say no she thinks you are leaving her
Needy women experience extreme fear of being abandoned.
That’s why she reacted so negatively when you tell her that you are not available today.
Even when it comes to other things…she’s always afraid that you’ll leave her.
You might tell her that you don’t want to go to the restaurant that she wants to go to.
She immediately recognizes this as a sign that you might have ended her.
Yep, you need a lot of patience when you are dating a needy woman.
9. She doesn’t give you physical space to breathe
Every man loves to cuddle his girlfriend.
I’ve never talked to a man who doesn’t enjoy it when his beloved girlfriend snuggled up to him.
But what if cuddling and snuggling turn into holding onto you?
What if she’s so clingy that you can’t even walk out of the room without her following you?
Congratulations, you just discovered one of the signs of a needy woman.
No, it’s your decision if you can deal with this level of clinginess or not.
10. She expects you to text her back immediately
Let’s say you are out with your friends.
You enjoy a cold beer at the bar and you have fun talking to your friends.
After about two hours of talking to your friends and sharing funny stories, you decide to check your phone.
You are shocked when you discover five text messages and one missed call from your girlfriend.
Your initial reaction is that something might be wrong and that’s why you call her back immediately…
… Just to find out that she created unnecessary drama because you didn’t reply to her first text message.
11. She doesn’t want you to have female friends
One of the most annoying signs of a needy woman is that she doesn’t want you to have female friends.
She sees every woman you interact with as competition.
Always remember that needy girls are afraid of abandonment.
She might not say anything when your female friend is not that attractive. But as soon as she considers your female friend to be more attractive than her, there will be drama.
12. She expects you to make her happy
This is the biggest problem with needy women.
She expects you to make her happy because she has a really hard time making herself happy.
Throughout our lives, we all have to make the experience that the only person who has the power to make ourselves happy…is us.
One of the signs of a needy woman is that she hasn’t made this realization yet.