Is She Flirting With Me Or Just Being Friendly? 7 Signs!

Is she flirting with me or just being friendly?

I’m sure you’ve been in the situation before. And I’m also sure that you’ve asked yourself this question at least once in your life.

You want to know if the woman that you are interested in is flirting with you or if she just pretends to be interested in you.

I mean, let’s admit it…

Yes, nothing worse than being convinced that a woman is totally into you and desires you, just to find out that everything was a lie.

It’s not that she lied to you on purpose.

She was just being nice but you were the one who completely misunderstood her signs.

Table of Contents

1. 1. Is she Flirting with me or just being friendly? Details matter!
2. 2. The way she touches you
3. 3. The way she looks at you
4. 4. The way she texts you
5. 5. The way she compliments you
6. 6. The way she asks you questions
7. 7. The way she reacts when you talk with other women

I know…you want to blame her for her behavior. You want to say something along the lines of “it’s all her fault.”

But one aspect of being a mature man is to take responsibility for your life and also for your thoughts.

Your thoughts might have played a trick on you.

Is she flirting with me or just being friendly?

Let’s find out…

1. Is she Flirting with me or just being friendly? Details matter!

The details are so important.

Just because a woman is touching you doesn’t mean that she is interested in you. And just because of woman holds direct eye contact with you doesn’t mean that she wants to undress you.

Don’t get me wrong.

A woman touching you can mean an expression of deep desire. And a woman looking into your eyes can be an expression of lust.

It just depends on how she looks at you and it depends on how she touches you.

That’s why I want to discuss some of these details in this article and show you when a woman is interested in you and when a woman is not interested in you.

Let’s find out whether or not she’s flirting with you or just being nice…

2. The way she touches you

Does she touch you?

That’s already a very good sign but it totally depends on how she touches you.

If a woman just touched you in a friendly way without any sensual intent, she’s probably just being friendly.

But if she touches you and at the same time she tries to hold eye contact and she blushes a little bit when you touch her back…

…this means that she’s flirting with you.

When you are really honest to yourself you can distinguish between a friendly touch and a touch that is a little bit more sensual.

Most men believe that when she gives you a high five or when she accidentally brushes against your arm…that this is a clear sign of interest.

Well, not always.

It can definitely be a sign of interest but only if your body language and her facial expression reveal her desire for you.

3. The way she looks at you

Is she flirting with me or just being friendly?

Her eyes reveal the truth.

A woman who wants you will look at you in a certain way.

Her pupils get bigger while she’s looking at you and her breath gets heavier when you are moving closer to her.

That’s when she wants you to kiss her.

But what if she looks at you in a way that communicates that you are a harmless guy in her eyes?

You know, when a woman looks at you as if you were a puppy and not a tiger.

This means that she’s not flirting with you and she’s also probably not interested in you in a romantic way.

The way she looks at you matters if you want to find out if this woman is flirting with you or not.

4. The way she texts you

Does she text you with emojis or without emojis?

The woman who is totally into you will use the wink emoji and the kiss emoji in almost every text message.

Her text messages will also contain a lot of hehe and haha. That’s what women do when they really like a guy.

You always have to remember that women act like playful teenagers when they are into a guy, no matter how old they are.

If she, however, sends you text messages without any emotional energy… Then she might not be that into you.

Is she flirting with me or just being friendly?

Have another closer look at the text messages that she already sent you. The emojis and the energy behind the message reveal the truth.

5. The way she compliments you

How does she compliment you?

When a woman tells you that you are a really nice guy and that she likes how friendly you are…be careful.

The words nice and friendly are not what a woman uses when she is really attracted to a man.

When a woman is attracted to you she might give you a compliment that is focused on your physical appearance.

She then tells you that she likes your style or that she likes the fact that you are going to the gym.

This woman is looking for a long-term relationship then she might also complement certain boyfriend qualities that she sees in you.

If she gives you a compliment about your altruistic nature, you can confidently assume that this woman wants a long-term relationship with you.

But telling you that you were such a nice guy is not the compliment that you want to hear.

6. The way she asks you questions

Is she flirting with me or just being friendly?

It depends on what kind of questions she asks you.

You have to understand that a woman who is interested in a man will ask him very personal and deep questions.

She wants to find out everything about him because she wants to be able to trust him.

No woman on earth can start a relationship with a man who she doesn’t trust. That’s why you’ll feel like in a police interrogation.

What are your goals? What do you want to achieve? Do you want to have children? What are your views on marriage?

These are the kind of questions that a woman might ask you when she’s totally into you.

On the other hand, a woman who is just being nice will ask you more superficial questions. She’s just trying to have small talk.

The golden rule:

The deeper her questions, the stronger her attraction for you.

7. The way she reacts when you talk with other women

How does she react when you talk to other women?

A girl was just being friendly and who doesn’t have any romantic interest in you just won’t care.

You could talk to the hottest girl in the mall or the cutest waitress at the restaurant…she won’t get jealous.

But what if she likes you?

Then she will show obvious signs of jealousy. Or at least you can see that she’s trying to suppress her jealous feelings.

Is she flirting with me or just being friendly?

All you have to do to find out if a woman wants you in a romantic way is to observe her behavior when you talk to other girls.

The way she looks at the girl you were talking to reveals everything.

Does she get jealous?

Does she get nervous and irritated?

This woman doesn’t just want to flirt with you. She wants to be your girlfriend.