Today I want to show you how to tell a girl you like her because…well…
Who is she?
Come on, admit it!
You didn’t click on this article because you have nobody on your mind.
I know for a fact (or at least I’m 99% sure) that you are thinking about a specific woman.
And you are not just thinking about her right before you go to bed.
Nope, you are also not just thinking about her right after you peel your banana.
You are thinking about this woman day in and day out.
She’s basically on your mind 24/7.
That’s why you want to know how to tell a girl you like her.
And I’m here to show you how it’s done…
1. How to tell a girl you like her: Just do it
Yup, you’ll hate me now.
You can admit it.
That’s the last piece of advice that you want to hear.
Just do it! Just tell her that you like her!
I know that at this moment your heart is pounding through your chest and you want to scream at me.
“I can’t do this! I just can’t do it!”
Why is it so hard for you to do something that should be the most natural thing on earth?
I can tell you why.
It’s because we live in a society that tries to emasculate men in every way possible.
And it’s most likely because you believe that you are less of a man in case she rejects you.
But that’s not true.
Her rejecting you (in case that happens) has nothing to do with you not being a man.
You are not a loser when a woman rejects you after telling her how much you like her.
This makes you a winner because you do your job as a man and you show up.
Always remember that when you hesitate with telling her how much you like her.
By telling her you have already won.
2. Tell her via text
Of course, you don’t have to tell her in person.
You can also text her.
However, if I were you I would use the personal route. It’s just more…well…personal.
You want to know how to tell a girl you like her.
But you might also want to hide behind your smartphone screen because you don’t have the confidence to tell her in person.
Don’t do that.
Instead, work on your confidence.
It’s way more likely that you receive a positive response when you tell her in person because it communicates self-confidence.
3. Let your body do the talking
If you want to know how to tell a girl you like her, you might want to work on your body language.
You don’t have to communicate with your words.
Let your body do the talking.
The more open your body language is, the more she’ll get the feeling that you want her.
If you, however, have a closed body language, she’ll get the feeling that she doesn’t want you.
Talk with your body and let her know how much you like her.
4. Make sure that she’s alone
Are you alone with her?
Then let her know how much you like her.
Is she surrounded by her friends?
Then don’t do it.
It’s really that simple.
You are here because you want to know how to tell a girl you like her.
You are not here because you want to learn how to make a girl uncomfortable.
Unfortunately, that’s exactly what you will do when you approach her in front of her friends to tell her how much you like her.
What if her friends make funny faces?
What if her friends react negatively?
This could influence her reaction towards you.
Women are social creatures and they hate nothing more than being judged in a social situation.
How to tell a girl you like her: Do it when it’s only you and her. Then she can give you an honest and unfiltered answer.
5. Don’t wait for the perfect moment because it doesn’t exist
Waiting for the perfect moment is a terrible idea.
How to tell a girl you like her:
I’m sorry but I have to say it again:
Just do it!
If you wait for the perfect moment that offers a combination of sunset and violins you might wait for the rest of your life.
Don’t ruin your chances by not taking action because you are waiting for the perfect moment.
6. Ask her out on a date
That’s how to tell a girl you like her.
You don’t beat around the bush. You just ask her out on a date.
Yep, in this scenario, you don’t even have to tell her that you like her.
The moment you ask her out on a date will be the moment when it “clicks” in her head.
She’ll know that you like her because no guy on planet earth asks a girl on a date who he doesn’t like.
Do this and you don’t even have to verbalize how much you like her because she’ll know what’s going on.
7. Make her feel good on a date before you tell her that you like her
Of course, you can still use the date that she’ll hopefully show up (don’t worry…she’ll show up) to tell her that you like her.
That’s why it’s important to be creative on the first date.
Don’t just take her to Starbucks and call it a day.
Instead, take her to Starbucks and then take her on an activity date.
Do something together.
Make her smile and maybe even sweat.
How to tell a girl you like her after an activity date:
Don’t hold back because the endorphins in her body make it very likely that she likes you too.
8. Remind yourself that you want her but you don’t need her
Remember that you can only succeed in life with the right mindset.
The same principle also applies to your dating life.
If you need her in your life, you’ll show too much neediness which will repel her.
What if you want her in your life while at the same time knowing that you have other options?
Then you don’t show any signs of neediness.
And this means that your chances of actually getting her are way higher.
9. How to tell a girl you like her: Remember that you have nothing to lose
You should always keep this in mind whenever you are asking yourself how to tell a girl you like her.
You literally have nothing to lose.
What’s the worst thing that can happen?
She doesn’t like you and rejects you.
Buhu! Big deal!
Yes, it might hurt for one or two days but that’s about it.
There are hundreds of thousands of beautiful women who would be happy to go on a date with you.
Always remember that.
Now go and tell her how much you like her.