You want her to think of you every second of the day.
That’s why you must learn how to make a woman miss you.
Unfortunately, a lot of guys do the complete opposite when they meet a girl they like.
They are needy.
They are insecure.
And they act in a really desperate way.
Table of Contents
- Learn how to make a woman miss you by owning your schedule
- Let her text you first
- Be a bit mysterious
- Don’t immediately reply to a text
- You are the one who ends the conversation
- Make her excited about your next date
- Send her a strategic good night text
- Let her make the first move when it comes to hanging out
- Spend one or two days apart from each other
Well, what can I say? No woman has ever said that she misses her needy, insecure, and desperate boyfriend.
What about her confident and mysterious boyfriend who is not always available?
Now we’re taking.
Learn how to make a woman miss you by owning your schedule
You live a busy life, right?
I hope you do because having an active lifestyle and designing your dream life makes you more attractive to women. And it also makes women miss you more.
You should be focusing on your studies, on your career, on your business, on your fitness, and on your mental health.
I mean yeah…your dating life is also important.
Otherwise, I wouldn’t be writing this article about how to make a woman miss you.
But you have to look at the big picture.
The more you communicate to her that you have a busy schedule, the more she’ll try to get your attention.
That’s when a woman starts missing you.
If you neglect your career and your friends to make time for her, she has no other choice than to lose respect for you…
…and she’ll never miss you.
Let her text you first
Showing that you respect and own your schedule starts with small things like texting.
Who texts first?
You are here because you want to know how to make a woman miss you.
This means that the answer to this question is very obvious.
You let her text first.
Imagine the following situation…
She knows that you’ll text her every morning at the same time. Will she miss you?
She expects to hear from you. Not once will she ask herself “what is he doing? Is he missing me?” You are way too predictable.
Now imagine the following situation…
She expects to hear from you at 9 am. But you just don’t text her. By 10 am she is wondering what’s going on.
At 11 am her thoughts drive her crazy and she imagines how you were with another girl last night.
That’s the power of letting her text you first.
Be a bit mysterious
What does it mean to be mysterious and how can it help you to make a girl miss you?
It doesn’t mean to help her “I work for the FBI” when she asks you what you are doing for a living.
That’s a bit too much.
All you have to do is to be less predictable than the average man.
Reveal the basics so that she can trust you.
But when she asks you about what kind of movie you like you can for example say “you’ll see when we go to the cinema together”.
When you are then apart from each other, she’ll think about going to the cinema with you.
And she wants to know what move you like.
Don’t immediately reply to a text
Some guys obsess over this.
I’ve heard guys say:
“If she takes two hours to reply I will also wait two hours.”
Congratulations! Now she’ll wait another two hours until you hear from her again. That’s nonsense.
You don’t know if she’s been in class or in a meeting.
All I’m asking you to do is to wait more than 15 minutes to reply to her.
That’s a good time frame.
Of course, if you are already dating her and she’s your girlfriend, you can reply a bit faster. But not after one minute.
This communicates neediness and no woman can respect a man who waits all day until he finally receives her text message.
You are the one who ends the conversation
This is huge…at least if you want to learn how to make a woman miss you.
Don’t be the guy who’s talking to her for hours and every time she wants to hang up you say…
“I miss you”
“5 more minutes, okay?”
That’s her job. She should be the one who is doing this.
But if you are always begging for another minute, she won’t do it.
In fact, she’ll lose respect and attraction for you because this is one of the most desperate things you could possibly do.
Please promise me that you won’t do that.
And in case you’ve already done it, please don’t do it again.
You should be the one who says:
“I have to go now to get to the gym/ continue to work/ meet a friend. Let’s talk tomorrow again.”
Now you give her the opportunity to miss you.
Make her excited about your next date
A great way to make a girl miss you is by making her so excited for your next date that she can’t wait to experience it with you. Tell her a story she can’t resist.
Let her know how awesome the food tastes at the place you want to take her to.
Let her feel the emotions of biting in that burger.
And don’t hold back when it comes to how much fun you will have.
Let her know that you will tickle her and make her laugh.
She’ll think about this experience all week long.
And she’ll miss you every day a bit more until she can finally embrace you again.
Send her a strategic good night text
What’s a strategic good night text?
I’m glad you ask…
Remember how I told you at the beginning that one of the biggest mistakes you can make is to send her a text in the morning at the exact same time every day.
The same rule doesn’t apply to good night texts and here’s why…
When she receives a short but sweet good night message from you before she goes to bed, you are the last person she thinks about before she drifts off to sleep.
You’ll most likely be also the first person she’ll think about when she wakes up in the morning.
It’s the perfect text for every man who is learning how to make a woman miss you.
Let her make the first move when it comes to hanging out
You don’t always have to be the one who asks her out.
You can also allow her to make the first move by doing something that is very effective.
Yep, it’s really that simple. If she wants to meet you, she’ll let you know.
Sooner or later she’ll make the first move.
Of course, this also depends on your culture.
But if you are dating a woman in a Western country, she’ll most likely make the next move.
Until she makes this move she’ll desperately miss you.
Spend one or two days apart from each other
I know that you want her. Otherwise, you wouldn’t be reading an article about how to make a woman miss you.
But you have to understand that spending every day together can make her miss you less and less because…well…you are always around.
What if you spend one or two days apart from each other?
I can guarantee you that she’ll miss you after this time.