How to Know if a Girl Loves You Secretly (13 Signs)

You want to find out how to know if a girl loves you secretly.

Does she?

Does she love you or do you just want her to feel like that?

Let’s say you’ve met this girl on Tinder or maybe you’ve approached her at the bar and you then had a date…

… And maybe this date has led to more.

Table of Contents

1. 1. Learning how to know if a girl loves you secretly requires open eyes
2. 2. She is disappointed when she’s not alone with you
3. 3. She’s fighting for your attention
4. 4. She asks your friends about your relationship status
5. 5. Her body language reveals her feelings for you
6. 6. She can’t hide her jealousy
7. 7. She wants to be your project partner
8. 8. In a group she only has eyes for you
9. 9. She plays with everything she can get a hold on when you are around
10. 10. She almost starts crying when you mention that you have a date with another girl
11. 11. She’s the one who’s there for you when you are sick or out of luck
12. 12. She remembers every detail about you and your life
13. 13. She looks at you in a way that makes it obvious to everyone around you

But even if you haven’t been intimate with her yet, she might already be in love with you.

Let’s have a look at the signs the girl loves you secretly.

1. Learning how to know if a girl loves you secretly requires open eyes

Do you have the power to see if she loves you?

I would say that every man has this innate ability to see the signs of a woman who was interested in him.

However, most men will never use this power.

They walk around through life completely blind and oblivious.

You don’t want to be that kind of guy.

Instead, you want to walk through life with your eyes wide open.

If you open your eyes, you will see if she loves you or not.

2. She is disappointed when she’s not alone with you

Learning how to know if a girl loves you secretly it’s about observing how she reacts when she doesn’t have the chance to be alone with you.

What if you invite her to a bar and she and she’s excited and happy.

She says yes immediately.

What you forgot to tell her is that two of your close friends will also show up.

The moment she greets you at the bar, she has the biggest smile on her face that you’ve ever seen.

She’s obviously happy.

But then it happens.

You tell her that you’re too close friends will also show up in about 20 minutes from now.

Now she’s not that happy anymore.

You can see in her face that she didn’t expect that.

And she’s obviously disappointed that she’s no longer alone with you or at least she won’t be in a couple of minutes.

She’s disappointed because she’s in love with you and she wanted to spend time with you and only you.

3. She’s fighting for your attention

What if your friends finally show up at the bar and they also bring to other girls?

Now it gets funny.

He is how to know if a girl loves you secretly:

The girl who shows interest in you, the one who most likely loves you, will fight for your attention.

She tries everything in her power to get your attention.

And whenever you talk with one of the other two girls, she gets visibly jealous.

She acts this way because she really loves you.

4. She asks your friends about your relationship status

She wants to know if you are single or if you are available.

And at the same time, she might also want to know if you have a crush on her.

Here’s how to know if a girl loves you secretly in regards to your friends:

She asks your friends about your relationship status because she wants to know if you have a girlfriend.

When your friends then tell her that you are single, she asks them if you have ever said anything about her.

She does that because she wants to gather information.

She wants to know if she has a chance and how high the chance is that she can get you.

5. Her body language reveals her feelings for you

Have a look at her body language.

He is how to know if a girl likes you secretly:

Whenever she’s around you, her body language changes.

She might have a close buddy language with other people, but with you, she has a completely open body language.

She shows you that she trusts you and that she’s open to interacting with you.

That’s the kind of body language the woman shows when she secretly loves you.

6. She can’t hide her jealousy

No matter if you are talking to the cute waitress or if you are talking to one of her female friends…

… She gets jealous.

Whenever you are talking to another female human being, She lets you know through her eyes and her facial expression that she doesn’t like that.

To be honest, a little bit of jealousy is cute.

You just have to be careful that it doesn’t get too much.

But jealousy can be assigned that she is secretly in love with you.

If she didn’t care about you, she wouldn’t be jealous.

And if she can’t control her jealousy, then she might really love you.

7. She wants to be your project partner

What if you have the feeling that one of the girls you work with secretly loves you?

One of the clear signs is when she tries to work with you in a group or a team or on a specific project.

She doesn’t do it because she thinks that you are the smartest light bulb in the company.

She does that because she has feelings for you and she sees this as a great opportunity to get closer to you.

8. In a group she only has eyes for you

Let’s say you and her are both invited to a party.

It’s a big party with many people.

But whenever you look in her direction she seems to be staring at you.

She might even be having conversations with other women and other men…

…but her eyes are glued on you.

That’s how to know if a girl loves you secretly.

No matter how many other men are there…

…she’s looking at you.

Are you also in love with her?

That it’s time that you stop talking to the other women in the group and that you walk up to her and make a move.

9. She plays with everything she can get a hold on when you are around

She plays with her necklace.

She plays with her bracelet.

And she even touches her glass so often that it looks as if a child with fatty fingers was playing with it.

She does that because she’s visibly nervous in your presence.

And she’s nervous because she wants to be with you. She loves you.

10. She almost starts crying when you mention that you have a date with another girl

Let’s say you are not sure if this woman has put you in the friend zone or if she secretly loves you.

One of the fastest ways you can find out how she feels about you is when you mentioned that you’re about to have a date with another woman.

Does she react nervously?

Is she irritated?

Maybe she even has to hold back one or two tears.

This means that she’s totally in love with you and the thought of you having a date with another woman is killing her.

11. She’s the one who’s there for you when you are sick or out of luck

Here’s how to know if a girl loves you secretly:

She’s there for you when your business goes south.

She’s there for you when you’re sick.

She’s there for you when you need someone to hold you and to tell you that everything will be all right.

A woman who truly loves you will take care of you and she will do everything in her power to make you feel better.

Such a woman is a keeper.

It’s time that you finally tell her how you feel about her.

12. She remembers every detail about you and your life

She remembers your birthday.

She remembers the day you met.

And she even remembers the story from high school that you shared with her.

The more details about your life she’s able to remember, the more she loves you.

13. She looks at you in a way that makes it obvious to everyone around you

Everyone already knows it.

That’s how to know if a girl loves you secretly.

Your friends tell you that she’s totally into you.

Her friends are asking you what’s going on between you two.

And you are oblivious.

I truly hope that now that you have identified one or two or maybe even many of the signs I mentioned, you will no longer be oblivious.