How to Get Your Wife in the Mood (9 Tips)

You want to know how to get your wife in the mood.

First of all, allow me to congratulate you on being an amazing husband.

Most men who are married for a couple of years or even a couple of decades don’t really care about the pleasure of their wives anymore.

You are different.

Table of Contents

1. 1. How to get your wife in the mood by turning back time
2. 2. Make her feel more desired than she has ever felt
3. 3. Give your wife a relaxing massage
4. 4. Dress up for your wife
5. 5. Invite your wife to a sensual shower
6. 6. Allow her to share her fantasies with you
7. 7. Tease her with your body
8. 8. Order lingerie with her and admire her body
9. 9. Kiss her with the passion of a lion

And it’s great that you are different because you want to improve your marriage and maybe you also want to save your marriage.

No matter if you are at the moment living a happy and fulfilled marriage or if you are struggling to maintain a healthy and fulfilled marriage…

… Life in the mood because I want both you and your wife to be happy.

And when it comes to turning your wife on and making her desire you, it’s important that you know how to turn back time.

Or let me see it like this.

You first have to make the conscious decision to turn back time.

Here’s what I mean by that…

1. How to get your wife in the mood by turning back time

Yes, you have to turn back time.

Think about the time when you first started dating your wife.

Think back to the first couple of dates that you had and especially think back to the time when you got intimate for the very first time.

You were probably kissing her all over her body. You were desiring her. And you wanted to be with her and you wanted to be inside of her all the time.

No matter how old you were when you met your wife, you desired her like a young lover. That’s the energy and the atmosphere that you want to recreate.

Your goal is to give her the feeling that she’s the most desirable woman in the world. In other words, you want to give her the same feeling that you already gave her when you just started dating.

2. Make her feel more desired than she has ever felt

How can you make a woman feel like the most desirable and desired woman on earth?

Shower her with compliments. Let her know how much you desire her buddy. Let her know how good she smells.

And don’t forget to kiss every inch of her body when you are undressing her. That’s how you make a woman feel desired.

Unfortunately, a lot of married men get lazy and they stop seducing their wives every single day.

Always remember that the seduction never ends.

When you make her feel desired every day, she will automatically get into the mood because every woman craves the feeling of being desired…

… especially when this feeling is provoked by the man she loves.

3. Give your wife a relaxing massage

As a man who wants to know how to get your wife in the mood, you should be ready to give her a relaxing massage.

But when it comes to giving her a relaxing massage..don’t just focus on her back and her neck.

Maybe I shouldn’t have said that you want to give her a relaxing massage.

What do you really want to do is to give her a massage that combines elements of relaxation with elements of a sensual massage.

When she agrees to the massage, which she will most likely do, first focus on her neck and her back.

Now that you’ve made her feel comfortable, you can then move your hands to other parts of her body.

First, massage her lower back and then slowly moving down to her butt cheeks, you can easily transition into a more sensual massage experience.

This is a great way to get your wife in the mood.

4. Dress up for your wife

Let me ask you something:

When was the last time you dressed up for your wife?

When was the last time you presented yourself to her in your best suit?

This is one thing that I’ve never understood about married couples.

A lot of them walk around in sweatpants at home and then they dress up when they go out to meet random strangers.

Think about it.

Couples who are no longer in the mood for intimacy dress up for people they don’t sleep with, but they neglect the one person that really matters.

That’s why I say:

As a man who wants to know how to get your wife in the mood, dressing up for her is not an option. It’s a necessity.

5. Invite your wife to a sensual shower

Another thing you can do to get your wife in the mood is to invite her to a sensual shower experience with you.

When was the last time you took a shower with your wife?

Or maybe you were taking regular showers with your wife come on but not in the way that I will suggest right now.

My suggestion is this:

Invite her to take a shower with you and then tell her that she has to do absolutely nothing.

You soap her body. You wash her hair and massage her head. And you even dry her wet body with a soft towel.

Make this experience all about her.

I can almost guarantee you that she will appreciate it so much that she will start a firework in the bedroom.

But of course, you don’t have to wait until you are in the bedroom. You can already get down and dirty in the shower.

6. Allow her to share her fantasies with you

If you are a man who wants to know how to get your wife in the mood, you have to be open-minded.

To be more precise…

You have to be open-minded about your wife’s fantasies.

One of the biggest issues in marriages is that both partners don’t communicate enough about their sensual fantasies.

They talk about the day. They talked about work. But they don’t talk about what they want to experience in bed.

You are reading an article about how to get your wife in the mood.

Now you are ready to share your fantasies with her and to invite her to do the same.

7. Tease her with your body

Another thing you can do is to tease her with your body.

All you have to do is to sneak up behind her, to embrace her, and to give her a kiss on the neck.

Then you can whisper a compliment in her ear. Maybe you also want to whisper something naughty in her ear.

It’s up to you how far you want to take it.

Showing her affection during the day can make her extremely excited for the night with you.

8. Order lingerie with her and admire her body

This is also something that can improve your marriage and in some cases, it can even save your marriage.

You can for example order beautiful lingerie together. She can choose which piece she wants and you buy it for her as a gift.

Come on, you can spend that money. I mean, you will enjoy this gift probably more than her.

This can make any woman feel desired again.

9. Kiss her with the passion of a lion

How do you kiss your wife?

If you kiss her like the man you see in popular sitcoms, you are doing it wrong.

Don’t give her a sitcom husband kiss.

Instead, kiss her with the passion of a lion.

Hold her head while you are kissing her. Play with her hair. Run your fingers all over her body.

That’s what a man does who knows how to get your wife in the mood.