How to Get the Girl You Want (10 Ways)

You want to know how to get the girl you want.

Who is she?

I’m sure she’s an incredibly beautiful and smart girl.

And I’m also sure that you can’t stop thinking of her.

So let me ask you the following question:

Why is she still not your girlfriend?

What’s stopping you from making her your girl?

Maybe you are part of the 90% of men who will never get the woman of their dreams.

Table of Contents

1. 1. How to get the girl you want by being in the top 10%
2. 2. Get the woman you want with unshakable confidence
3. 3. Attract her with your style
4. 4. Get her with the charisma of James Bond
5. 5. Attract your dream girl during moments of silence
6. 6. Listen to her because she reveals everything you need
7. 7. Let her know that she’s on a date with an ambitious man
8. 8. Get the girl you want with invitations
9. 9. Make her want you by being unapologetically honest
10. 10. Get the girl you want with your flirting skills

These guys have to settle for less.

And if you now think it’s impossible to be in the top 10% of guys, you should definitely read this article till the very end.

I’ll show you what you need to do in order to attract the woman of your dreams.

I show you how you can be in the top 10%.

1. How to get the girl you want by being in the top 10%

Whenever I tell guys about my 90% and 10% categorization, they often get irritated.

They think it is impossible to be in the top 10% of guys.

Well, let me tell you something.

It’s actually incredibly easy to be part of the top 10% of guys.

You just have to be a bit more skilled at attracting women in a bit less afraid to approach women and tell them how you feel about them.

Can you do that?

You can, at least once you have unshakable confidence…

2. Get the woman you want with unshakable confidence

If you want to learn how to get the girl you want, you need to be confident.

Women are attracted to confident men.

No woman has ever uttered the following words:

I wish the man I’m dating wasn’t so confident.

Confidence is one of the most attractive qualities that you can have.

And if you don’t have it, it will be very difficult for you to attract high-quality women.

That’s why it’s so important that you put yourself in situations that are challenging for you.

And that’s why it’s so important that you don’t give up on your journey to overcoming your approach anxiety.

The more you put yourself in situations where you step out of your comfort zone come on the easier it will be for you to develop true confidence.

Once you are confident come out it would be easy for you to learn how to get the girl you want.

3. Attract her with your style

You can also get the woman you want by looking better than the competition.

Believe it or not but women value a man with a good style.

It doesn’t mean that the clothes that you’re wearing have to be expensive.

I for example don’t buy designer clothes at all.

Instead, I buy clothes that fit my body and that are often tailor-made.

Infect some of my suits are tailor-made from Thailand and they cost less than $100.

It doesn’t have to be expensive to look good.

Just find clothes that fit your body and that show your body in a positive way.

4. Get her with the charisma of James Bond

What happens when James Bond enters a bar?

Yes, he’s usually wearing a suit and looking really good.

But there’s more to it than his pretty face and his tailor-made suit.

When James Bond enters sabar people look at him because of his charisma.

Charisma is something that you have or you don’t have. There is no middle way.

The good news is that you can learn to be charismatic.

Just play with your eye contact and with your smile and you will soon learn how to be a more charismatic man.

Once you are this man, finding out how to get the girl you want will be easy for you.

5. Attract your dream girl during moments of silence

The seduction happens when you’re both quiet.

A lot of men falsely assume that the moment they seduce a woman when they’re talking to her.

It’s not the case at all.

This adaptation happens in between the moments of emotional connection that you experience during a conversation.

The more you slow down and the more you focus on playing with your body language during moments of silence…

…the easier it will be for you to attract beautiful women.

6. Listen to her because she reveals everything you need

Women give you everything you need in order to seduce them.

This is something that most men totally forget.

If you want a date with a woman and she is interested in you, she will let you know exactly how you should seduce her.

That’s how to get the girl you want.

You get her by listening.

You get her by understanding how she wants to be treated.

You get her by knowing exactly what she likes and what she doesn’t like.

Getting the woman of your dreams is really easy when you know exactly what she wants you to do and what she wants you not to do.

7. Let her know that she’s on a date with an ambitious man

If you are a young man it’s enough that you have potential.

As a man in your 20s, you can communicate to a woman verbally or non-verbally that you are an ambitious man.

What if you are in your late 30s or early 40s?

Then it’s no longer enough to communicate that you are an ambitious man.

Now you have to show her how ambitious you are by talking about your lifestyle and by mentioning your accomplishments.

Let’s face it.

No woman wants to date a loser.

Women want to date winners.

That’s how to get the girl you want.

Are you a winner?

If not, make the necessary changes in your life to become a man who is winning in life.

Nothing allows you to get the girl you want faster than to win in life and to show her that you are the ambitious man she always dreamed of.

8. Get the girl you want with invitations

What do most guys do when they ask for a phone number?

And what do most guys do when they ask a girl out on a date?

I just revealed it in these questions.

Most men ask a woman and they don’t invite a woman.

The fastest way to learn how to get the girl you want is to stop asking her and to start suggesting.

You don’t back her to give you her number. You simply invite her to give you her number and to stay in contact.

You don’t ask her to go on a date with you. Instead, you invite her to go out somewhere where you want to go anyway.

That’s what she wants.

9. Make her want you by being unapologetically honest

Women love men who were honest, even when they don’t share the same opinion.

A woman hates nothing more than a man who pretends to have the same opinion as her just to get her in bed.

Be a man with a backbone and show her that you are unapologetically honest.

That’s how you get the woman of your dreams.

10. Get the girl you want with your flirting skills

You want to know how to get the girl you want, am I right?

Then flirt as if your life depends on it.

Your flirting skills are immensely important when it comes to your ability to attract beautiful women.

Flirt with your eyes, flirt with your smile and flirt with your words.

Do this and the girl you want will be yours.