How to Flirt With Your Wife (9 Ways)

You want to know how to flirt with your wife. This means that I can congratulate you.

I can congratulate you on being an amazing husband because you actually care about her and about your relationship.

Most married men give up. You don’t. You are willing to put in the work to save your marriage or to at least improve your marriage.

That’s why you are awesome.

Table of Contents

1. 1. How to flirt with your wife as you did on your first date
2. 2. Whisper compliments in her ear
3. 3. Surprise her in your best suit
4. 4. Smile at her like a cheeky boy
5. 5. Hold her hand really tight
6. 6. Send her naughty texts while she’s at work
7. 7. Leave her little love notes
8. 8. Touch her whenever she wants
9. 9. Flirt with her before you go to bed

And that’s why I want to show you in this article that you can infect not just rescue a relationship and not just improve it but make it the best marriage you could possibly experience.

Learning how to flirt with your wife doesn’t have to be hard.

All you have to do is to think back to the time when you met her.

1. How to flirt with your wife as you did on your first date

The problem in every marriage is that people no longer do what they used to do at the beginning of the dating process.

Think about the time when you met your wife. Think back to the first couple of dates you had with her.

I’m sure you were touching her a lot. Also very confident that you were flirting like love drunk teenagers on your first date.

And now you’re asking yourself how you can possibly flirt with your wife even though you already know it

You already know it because if you didn’t know it you would have not been able to attract the woman you made your wife in the first place. So you know how to flirt.

It’s just that when you are in a relationship for a very long time, you often forget to do the basic things that created the relationship in the beginning.

That’s why I want you to ask yourself a few questions…

How did you look at your wife when you saw her while she was waiting for you on your very first date?

How did you look at your wife after the first time you were intimate with each other?

How did you look at your wife the first time you were boarding an airplane together while you were going on your first travel adventure?

And how did you look at your wife when you arrived at the resort during your honeymoon?

Look at her like that!

The secret to learning how to flirt with your wife is to think back to all the times you’ve already flirted with her.

Yes, I’m talking about the time when she wasn’t your wife yet.

Do the things and say the things you used to do and you used to say when she fell in love with you.

That’s how you can make her fall in love with you again and make your marriage better than it has ever been.

2. Whisper compliments in her ear

When was the last time that you whispered a compliment in your wife’s ear?

Do this today.

It doesn’t have to be a very creative compliment.

You can just walk up to her and hug her from behind. And while you were hugging her you then whisper the following words in her ear:

“You smell so good.”

“You are so beautiful.”

Of course, you can also give her a kiss on the cheek or a passionate kiss on her lips and tell her how good her lips taste.

Like I said before, you don’t need to win any prizes when it comes to the most creative compliment.

You just have to show her your affection and that you still desire her like you used to desire her when you were in your honeymoon phase.

3. Surprise her in your best suit

Is there any piece of clothing that you own that drives your wife wild?

Maybe it’s a suit. Or maybe it’s a leather jacket. No matter what it is, I want you to wear it for your wife.

What often happens in long-term relationships and especially in marriages is that both partners no longer care about dressing up for each other.

In my humble opinion, this is a big mistake. Mistake because the way you dress up for each other communicates how much you want the other person to desire you.

It’s not just that you are looking better when you’re dressed up or when you are dressed in a certain way that your wife likes.

It communicates something on a deep emotional level. It communicates that you care about her and that you want her to desire you.

That’s why you might want to take your best suit out of the closet and show your wife that you want her to desire you.

Then she will do the same for you.

4. Smile at her like a cheeky boy

When it comes to learning how to flirt with your wife you have to think back to the time when you were younger.

Do you remember the time when you had this cheeky boyish charm?

If you smile at your wife like a cheeky boy who has a crush on his teenage love, then she will appreciate it.

Yes, you can create this emotion of being a love-drunk teenager deep inside of her. You just have to look at her like a love-drunk teenager.

Smile at her in a cheeky way and then when she also starts smiling…that’s when you give her a kiss.

She will feel young again because you made her feel young again.

5. Hold her hand really tight

Showing your affection in public depends on your cultural background and the culture that you are currently living in.

But if you were living in Western culture I would say that it’s completely ok and normal to show public display of affection.

Don’t hold back!

Shower her with kisses and hug her whenever you want to hug her. And yes, hold her hand really tight.

You don’t want to squeeze her hand until she is in pain, but you want to show her how much you love her by holding her hand in a loving way.

6. Send her naughty texts while she’s at work

As a man who wants to learn how to flirt with your wife, you might also want to use your smartphone.

Send her naughty text messages when she’s at work. In case she’s staying at home you can also send her naughty text messages during your work break.

Most married couples don’t do that. They are too much trapped in a boring routine.

But I guarantee you that if you do that it can spice up your marriage really fast.

7. Leave her little love notes

Have you ever thought about writing your wife hand-written love notes?

This is one of the best ways to flirt with your beloved wife. It’s at the same time creative and thoughtful.

Why don’t you write her a little love note in the morning that says I love you?

Then either stick it on the fridge for her to see or put it in her bag before she leaves for work.

She will be happy once she sees your little love note.

8. Touch her whenever she wants

If you are living in a happy marriage I’m pretty sure that she wants to feel your touch all the time.

And if that’s the case, you can show her your affection. In fact, I want you to shower her with your affection.

Make her feel like the most desired wife and she will make you feel like the most desired husband.

Never underestimate the importance of physical touch in a relationship and especially in a marriage.

9. Flirt with her before you go to bed

Speaking of physical touch in your marriage…

Don’t just turn around and say “good night honey” before you go to bed.

Do more than just giving her a kiss before you go to sleep.

Hug each other. Touch each other. Look into each other’s eyes.

That’s how to flirt with your wife.

And if you do this every night before you go to bed, you will enjoy a fulfilling and loving marriage.