You want to know how to flirt with a girl over text. And I want to show you how it’s done.
Unfortunately, there seem to be two types of men when it comes to using flirtatious banter in messages.
Guy number one is so afraid that anything too sensual might make her run away and call him a jerk or pervert.
This guy never sends any flirty text messages and as a result, the friend zone is his warm and comfortable home.
Then there’s guy number two…
That’s the guy who watched one or two videos on how to text a girl on YouTube.
He now thinks that flirting with a woman via text is the same as throwing naughty words around.
Some men need to press the pedal to the metal while others need to slow down. You need to find the right balance.
How to flirt with a girl over text when your ways of communicating are limited
It’s hard. I get it.
Finding the right balance is not that easy when you are learning how to make a girl fall in love with you over text with your flirty messages.
When you are interacting with a woman in person, you can use your body language, your tonality, and your cheeky smile to attract her.
You can’t use any of that when you try to win her over with the help of your smartphone.
Or wait…you can use one of the things I mentioned.
More on that in a bit…
For now, you need to realize that it’s your job to come up with creative ways to flirt with women by using your smartphone.
Make your memes frisky and naughty
Be a naughty boy.
I’m serious. And the best thing about it is that you can combine being naughty with being funny.
All thanks to the power of memes.
There are so many sites online that allow you to design any meme you want to design.
And guess what? You can write anything you want in the description.
This is a perfect opportunity to flirt with her. Even if you might come off as a bit too direct…you can always say that it was just a joke.
She can’t be angry at you for putting a naughty comment under a SpongeBob meme.
You were just joking. Of course, you were…
Send her selfies that show you in high-value situations
You are a high-value man. Or at least you are on the journey towards becoming a high-value man by reading my article.
There’s one thing that makes learning how to flirt with a girl over text so easy.
And that’s your ability to communicate high value with pictures.
You can tell a woman all day long that you are a high-value dude.
She won’t believe you unless you show her your value with actions.
Why not send her a picture of you working out at the gym?
Why not send her a selfie that shows you crushing it during work?
Why don’t you take a group photo when you are out with your friends and send it to her?
These are all ways to communicate to her that you are a high-value man.
The more she has the feeling that you are a good catch, the less she likes the idea of you choosing another woman.
And she knows that a high-value man can choose other women.
Text her voice messages in your best George Clooney voice
Have you ever watched the Nespresso commercial with George Clooney?
Now you know how you should talk when you send a woman a voice message.
Believe it or not, but one part of learning how to flirt with a girl over text is to know how to change your voice to make it sound more seductive.
No woman gets turned on when you send her a voice message while you are out of breath and speaking like a chipmunk.
Speak in a deep and masculine voice while you are recording a voice message for her. That’s when her lips will start shaking.
Come up with cute nicknames for her when you text her
This is a highly effective strategy for every man who wants to learn how to flirt with a girl over text.
Give her cute nicknames and she’ll flirt with you.
It will happen automatically because the fact that you are giving her a cute nickname gives her the feeling that you are really close.
Maybe you just know each other for one day. It won’t matter.
Our society conditioned us to believe that nicknames are for couples and people who are really close to each other.
This conditioning works to your advantage.
Use the wink emoji whenever you can
There are so many emojis to choose from.
Most of them are useless and some of them can even backfire. In fact, one of the most popular emojis, the kiss emoji, can and will backfire if you use it to flirt with a woman.
You are not a couple yet. Unless she’s your girlfriend you should never use the kiss emoji. It appears way too needy.
Instead, wink at her by using the wink emoji.
This shows that you are flirting with her. That’s the one simply that I can wholeheartedly recommend.
Use sensual innuendos in your messages
If you want to know how to flirt with a girl over text, you might also want to use innuendos.
Playing with words can be very effective.
In other words, you say something very innocent but the thoughts you put in her mind won’t be that innocent.
You can for example talk about the wet lake. The hot summer. Or your wet body when you step out of the hot shower.
She’ll love it…
Tell her what you would do with her
What would you do with her if she was sitting next to you on the couch?
What would you do with her if she was in your bed right now?
Depending on the stage of your relationship, you can talk about the things you would do with her if she was here with you.
Maybe you want to tuck her in. Maybe you want to kiss her. Maybe you want…I’ll leave this one for your imagination.
Send her a good night text before she goes to bed
The last tip on how to flirt with a girl over text that I want to share with you has to do with timing.
When does the typical needy guy send a text?
Early in the morning.
He wants her to wake up to a “good morning sweetheart. Have a great day.” My advice: don’t do that.
Sending her a text in the morning communicates neediness and that all you can think about is her.
That sounds very romantic in Hollywood movies but it destroys attraction in the real world.
Instead, do this…
Send her a good night message before she goes to bed. Don’t make it overly romantic.
A short “good night” with the good old wink emoji is enough.
Now you are the last person she thinks about before she goes to bed. And you will be the first person who’s on her mind when she wakes up.
This means that you are winning.