How to Ask a Girl to Be Your Girlfriend 

Do you really want to know how to ask a girl to be your girlfriend?

Are you sure about that?

Hey, I’m just asking. I have my reasons to ask because a lot of guys are choosing to be in relationships with women who…well…how can I put it?

They are not exactly girlfriend material.

I don’t want you to end up in a relationship with a woman who is obviously not good for you. Or let’s say it’s obvious for everyone around you.

Just not for you.

You think about her as your dream girl, as a goddess, as the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with. And that’s fine.

Or wait. It’s not fine.

It’s not fine at all because she might not even be girlfriend material…


How to ask a girl to be your girlfriend when she’s not girlfriend material

As somebody who gives dating advice, I’m used to talking to men who make terrible decisions with women. And hey, I’ve been there.

Yep, been there done that.

But just because I’ve made terrible decisions in the past and just because a lot of other men make equally terrible decisions, doesn’t mean that you have to fall into the same trap.

I don’t want you to learn how to ask a girl to be your girlfriend, just so that you make a woman your one and only who clearly doesn’t deserve this title.

That’s why I want you to ask yourself this question:

Is she really girlfriend material?

Let’s say you started dating this girl. She’s really pretty. Her body…wow. She’s a 9 out of10 on the scale.

But when you have a closer look at her personality…

She is immature. She is unreliable. She has had more boyfriends than you have hair on your head. She introduces a lot of drama to your life.

And did I mention that she loves to drink and to party with the girls?

I guarantee you…and I really mean this…if you make her your girlfriend, your life will be as dramatic as a low-budget reality TV show.

Mark my words:

Only ask a girl to be your girlfriend when she’s girlfriend material.


Get to know her well before you ask her to be your girlfriend

That’s why it’s important that you get to know her well, and I mean really well.

I know. You want to know how to ask a girl to be your girlfriend. Don’t worry. We’ll get to the practical part.

Let me first save your life.

Other dating coaches might not even address this point. But I’m different. I see the big picture. And I want you to be able to create a beautiful picture.

Don’t even think about making her your girlfriend when you don’t know anything about her family. You might not even know anything about her past.

I’ve met men who found out that their girlfriend was a professional sugar baby after three years of dating them. Looking at a grown man crying because his hard was just broken is not something I enjoy.

That’s why I want you to get to know her. This allows you to choose wisely.


It’s not a relationship unless you had…

Yes, I said it.

It’s not a relationship unless you danced the devil’s tango. It’s not a relationship unless you put your sausage in her mustard jar. It’s not a relationship unless…

…I think you get the point.

Don’t ask her to be your girlfriend before you have had your first bedroom experiences…unless you are still in high school. That’s the only exception.

If you are a man over the age of 18 and you ask a girl to be your girlfriend without having been intimate with her, you are making a big mistake.

You give her commitment for nothing. Good job.


Online relationships are a time-wasting trap

There is no such thing as an online relationship.

It’s something that women have invented to waste the time of gullible men who finally want to say “I have a girlfriend”

There’s one thing you need to know about women. They love male attention. That’s why they are so addicted to Instagram.

Just because she uses you for attention from a distance doesn’t mean she cares about you.

It’s a hard pill to swallow. I know. But it’s important that you swallow it.

You learn how to ask a girl to be your girlfriend because you want to use your knowledge to get a girl who is close to you and who actually cares about you.


Does she show signs of interest and attraction?

Does the woman you want to make your girlfriend actually like you?

Good question, right?

The answer to this question reveals how likely it is that she will say “yes” when you ask her to be your girlfriend.

Before asking a girl to be your girlfriend, she should have at least shown you one or two signs of interest. A smile can be enough. Or touching your shoulder.

What if she has shown no signs of attraction at all?

Let’s find out what’s going on inside her pretty head…


Ask her how she sees the relationship with you

The best way to get what you want in life is to be honest about what you want. Yes, that also applies to women.

I mean, you could beat around the bush for another two months. That’s an option. It’s not a good option but it is one.

Why not instead be honest?

You have to let her know how you feel about her. Hiding the fact that you like her won’t work when you ask her to be your girlfriend.

And you also don’t have to hide your feelings. So many guys are terribly afraid of telling a woman how they feel. That’s unnecessary.

Ask her how she sees the relationship with you.

If she smiles and blushes when you ask her, you can bet your butt that she’ll be your girlfriend.


Never ask a girl to be your girlfriend in a public place

Oh, and always ask her in a private environment.

You don’t know how she will react. I think we can both agree that you don’t want a crazy scene in a restaurant where she rejects you.

I don’t say that it will happen but you have to be prepared for the worst-case scenario.

What if the best-case scenario happens?

She’s much more likely to jump on you when you are sitting on your couch than when you are sitting in a restaurant.


You can now kiss your girlfriend

What if she says “yes”?

What if she wants to be your girlfriend?


Now be the tiger that you are and kiss her.

Give her the most passionate kiss you’ve ever given a woman. Show her how much you desire her. Show her how happy you are to have her in your life.

Your energy communicates so much more than your words. Present her the energy of a man who wants nothing more than to hold her, touch her, and protect her.

Now you know how to ask a girl to be your girlfriend. And you also know what to look out for and how to avoid the most common mistakes men make.

Have fun making her your girlfriend!