How to Ask a Girl to Be Your Girlfriend (9 Steps)

You want to know how to ask a girl to be your girlfriend.

That’s awesome!

Who is the lucky girl?

Don’t worry.

You don’t have to tell me any details about her.

I’m sure she’s amazing.

I’m sure she’s an incredible woman.

And I’m also sure that you are nervous as hell.

How do I know?

Well, otherwise you wouldn’t be reading an article about how to ask a girl to be your girlfriend.

I hope I can help you to feel less nervous and more like “yeah, I can do this!”

Let’s have a look at how it’s done…

 

1. How to ask a girl to be your girlfriend: Confidence wins

Yep, confidence always wins.

Women are biologically programmed to be attracted to confident men.

Are you the kind of man she wants to have as a boyfriend?

Well, you are…if you have enough self-confidence.

A confident man is a man who goes for what he wants.

He’s not afraid to speak his truth and to show the world who he really is and what he thinks.

That’s the kind of guy women want.

Do you want to know how to ask a girl to be your girlfriend?

By asking her in the most confident and authentic way possible.

 

2. Ask her after you’ve at least been to the first base

When is the right time to ask her to be your girlfriend?

Not before the first kiss.

You should progress at least to the first base before you even think about asking her to be your girlfriend.

Make sure that you have at least some proof that she likes you. And no, I’m not talking about proof that she likes you as a friend.

You want to be sure that she’s into you.

A woman who has kissed you has already proven that she likes you in a way that exceeds friendship.

Now you can ask her to be your girlfriend.

Without any form of physical contact, it’s simply too early to pop the question.

 

3. Ask her when she’s alone

Here’s how to ask a girl to be your girlfriend:

Ask her when she’s alone.

That’s your only chance to receive an honest answer.

She won’t tell you the truth about her feelings when her friends are standing right next to her.

That’s when she has to pretend to be a good girl. That’s when she might even reject you…

…while she’s secretly hoping to be your girlfriend.

You’ll never get an honest response from a woman who is surrounded by friends who might judge her for liking you.

Make sure that she’s alone.

That’s how to ask a girl to be your girlfriend…at least if you want her to say yes.

 

4. How to ask a girl to be your girlfriend: Do it with a winner’s mindset

You are a winner.

Yes, you!

You are amazing and incredible.

You are a great guy!

Don’t let anyone (especially yourself) tell you otherwise.

You approach her like a winner.

You ask her to be your girlfriend like a champ.

Here’s how to ask a girl to be your girlfriend with the right mindset:

She’s already your girlfriend because she couldn’t possibly say no to the prospect of having you as a boyfriend.

You are a winner and as a winner, you win her heart over.

 

6. Tell her why you want her to be your girlfriend

A lot of guys make one big mistake when they try to figure out how to ask a girl to be your girlfriend.

They say things like:

“You are so beautiful. I want you to be my girlfriend.”

Really?

That’s why you want a relationship with her?

I can almost guarantee you that she won’t be impressed by this.

She knows that there are a lot of other beautiful women in this world.

She wants to know why you chose her over all these other women.

Let her know what qualities and characteristics you appreciate in her.

That’s how to ask a girl to be your girlfriend while making her feel special.

 

7. Playfully sell yourself as the best boyfriend in town

You are superman.

That’s how to ask a girl to be your girlfriend.

Seriously, you want her to think that you are the best invention since the toaster and rhe coffee machine.

The better you can sell yourself, the more likely it is that she wants to buy the product that is you.

Let her know how ambitious you are.

Tell her about your goals.

Give her the feeling that saying no to you as her boyfriend would be a terrible mistake.

That’s how to ask a girl to be your girlfriend while making her proud to have you as her boyfriend.

 

8. Know that there are many potential girlfriends for you

You should always keep this in mind.

Yes, I know.

You are here because you want to know how to ask a girl to be your girlfriend.

I get it.

But I want you to remember that there are millions of potential girlfriends for you out there.

The world is a big place.

Don’t overthink it with this one girl.

There are many like her.

Give it a shot and ask her to be your girlfriend. But know that the world doesn’t end if she rejects you.

I’m sure she’ll want to be your girlfriend.

I just thought I mention this.

The less needy you are, the more relaxed you’ll be.

And when you are relaxed you’ll do everything right and she’ll want to be your girlfriend.

 

9. Don’t just end the conversation the moment she gives you her response

Continue talking.

Yes, I know that you are freaking happy.

And that’s great.

You should be happy because she’s now your girlfriend.

But remember that you can’t just say “thank you” and walk away.

That wouldn’t leave a good impression.

Instead, continue the conversation as boyfriend and girlfriend.

Congratulations!

You now have a beautiful girlfriend.